Monday, June 23, 2014

The confident woman: 5 easy tips to achieving that

As a lady, low self esteem can drive you nuts and damage you inside and outside. It literally makes you fight with everything around you. If you have ever felt this way, reading and applying these suggestions can give you a helping hand. I hope you enjoy reading this and remember, you are not alone.


  • Nice smell: as a lady, it is very important that you take care of yourself and try your best to smell nice. I personally would give anything to smell nice. Smelling nice doesn’t require expensive designer perfumes, but requires good personal hygiene which starts by taking a bath at least twice a day for a lady.
  • Good hair: you don’t need hair extensions (expensive or affordable ones) to feel confident. You can actually wear your natural hair perfectly. The key – keep it neat and tidy and feel comfortable with it. No matter how you choose to wear your hair, it should be kept neat and tidy at all times. Please ladies, we can’t simply wear our hair extensions for 3 months without washing it that is just gross.
  • The right cloths: by the right cloths, I don’t mean expensive designer clothes or anything like that. You can actually look super amazing in really cheap clothing if you wear the right one – your size. You cannot be a size 6 and wear a size 8 or be a size 14 and decide to wear a size 10. Your cloths have to be the right one for your body size and body type as well.
  • Embrace your body: this simply means acknowledging the things that you have and don’t have. For instance, if you are brief like me, and don’t have the figure 8 (you know the curves in the right places like they say). You just have to make do with what you have and work with it in the best way possible.
  • The right attitude: you cannot go on complaining about how skinny or fat you are; how short or tall you are. You need to realize that, those things you are complaining about can work to your own advantage if you embrace them. Make peace with who you are and how you look – that gives you inner peace and happiness. The inner peace and happiness radiates on the outside and increases your confidence.

Finally, be thankful for what you have and identify one part of your body that you love the most and make every effort to emphasize it at all times. If you love yours legs, arms, hips, show them off. As for me, everyone who knows me can tell that I love my eyes so much and I flaunt my beautiful eyes whenever I have the opportunity to.
Remain happy and spread happiness around. xoxo  

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