Tuesday, June 17, 2014

How to know if he is wasting your time or not

It is important that when we are searching for the right person, we don't settle for just anyone. I have decided to share these signs that always seem to be found in guys who turn out to be a total waste of time. Enjoy reading it and note the signs so you can run when you recognize it in men..

8 signs he is wasting your time


  1. He tells you ‘I love you’ too much: Ok, I know every girl wants to hear that and that’s just fine. But if he tells you he loves you too much, you know like those ones that say it 100 times a day – chances are, they don’t mean it and they are just using that to get their way.
  2. He calls you too much: Keeping in touch in itself is not a bad thing, but when he is overdoing it, that is not good because he is likely doing that just to get your attention and will probably stop after he gets what he wants. With special reference to the ones who call you every hour just to say hi, while they are chatting to you on whatsapp or BBM all day.
  3. Promises you things you didn’t even request for: It is true that a girl cannot have enough but when a man promises you things you didn’t even request for, it is most likely that he is not going to keep that promise.
  4. Plans indoor activities instead of outdoor activities: I am one person who will never understand why a man will invite a woman to his house or request to go to her house on a first date. It is either he is a cheap skate or a conqueror looking for his next conquest.
  5. He talks too much and doesn’t give you a chance to talk: The problem with this is that he is not a good listener and surely, no woman wants a man who is not a good listener.
  6. Apologizes unnecessarily: Yeah, it is true that not every man out there is humble enough to apologize when they are wrong but the problem with unnecessary apology is that he doesn’t mean it and uses it as an excuse for wrong doing.
  7. You just met and he is already talking babies and marriage: It is too soon! He needs to slow down and get to know you before going on about that. If he is talking about such things that soon it is clearly a strategy of his to get you committed when he has no intension of being committed to you.
  8. He tells you ‘I miss you’ when you’ve only been gone for few minutes: He is a smooth operator and a liar because he does not mean it and if he is not sincere about such a small thing, he will not be sincere about bigger things. Don’t settle for anything just because you cannot find a date. Just let things happen naturally because it is better to wait than to waste your time with the wrong person and get hurt. Don't forget to remain happy. xoxo

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

LOL. Finally women are decoding the signs of a player. -Newyorker