Hmmm! This is a very difficult topic for me to write about
briefly but I will try and make my point. So I had this conversation with a
male friend who just told me that he broke up with his fiancée because she was
too demanding. According to him, the girl wanted him to take care of her
financial needs even though she had a job.
I personally believe that a man should be able to rise to the
occasion in all aspects including the financial needs of his girl. The woman may have
her own money and all that but it gives a woman joy to be spoilt by her man. However,
I don’t subscribe to unnecessary and unrealistic demands. Imagine being with a
guy for just 3 weeks and you are already demanding that he pays for your house
or car, that is just crazy. If as a woman, you just meet a man and then you
want him to do everything for you, the question will be, how were you surviving
before you met him? Anyway, if you are a man, what is your opinion on this and
the ladies, I will like your views too.
Remain happy and spread happiness around. xoxo
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4 comments:
Happy,you are right that a man should take care of his woman but some ladies sha,they can drive you insane with demands.
If the man has the money and cannot spend. He is stingy so leave him but if he does not have, stay and support him. The bucket may laugh at the basket becos it cannot hold rain to water plants by the farmer but the basket will also have its day to shine when harvest time comes. Everyone have their day n time. p.s: Husband is not ATM -Newyork
Some men are just stingy and will always be
please n please, the fact that a guy is into a relationship with a lady doesn't make him an 'NGO' or a sponsor er. Relationship is between two people from two different background, culture and tribe or same tribe. but my point is ladies should be able to understand that guys are not NGO and shouldn't put there financial request/needs/burden on the guy, remember the guy also have families and relatives.
Ladies, the world has changed, you shouldn't wait until your guy settle your financial request/needs because his not you father. Work and take care of yourself. Seye
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