First, when a guy demands sex from you in order to prove that
you love him, tell him you are single but not stupid.
Secondly, When a guy demands sex from you to prove if both of
you are sexually compatible; tell him you are single but not stupid.
Thirdly, when a lady freely undresses and changes her clothes
in your presence under the pretext that you are close friends, run brother run,
you are single but not stupid.
Fourthly, when a guy preaches the use of romance and phone
sex as a holy substitute for fornication and then projects you as the only one
who must “save” him or else he would completely backslide, don’t fall for that
guilt trip, put on your thinking cap and say, “I’m single but not stupid.”
Fifthly, when a lady becomes overtly kind and gives you
special attention which she can’t maintain or sustain with other guys, but
becomes exceptionally caring and accommodating enough to do anything you want
or even cross the purity line, my friend, you are looking at another Jezebel,
the slayer of giants. Hurry, flee! You are single but not stupid.
Six, when a guy joins church because of you, gets baptized
because of you, joins an activity group because of you, and changes his
lifestyle because of you. Ask yourself since when did you become his messiah,
mentor and saviour when Jesus Christ is still seated at the right hand of the
Father. Baby, you are single but not stupid.
Seven, when as a lady, you are compelled to do a stupid thing
just to prove you are beautiful; and to confirm that you are privileged to be
with this handsome, popular and charismatic guy; and to show that you deserve
and appreciate all his efforts towards you; and that, by the way, if you don’t,
some other lady is more than willing to do it for him and take your place.
Relax, a love you have to prove, is a love that will never last. Remember,
you’re single but not stupid.
Eight, when a man preaches the stupidity of condom. Tell him
that the HIV virus is 450 times smaller than the sperm cell and if condoms have
a 15-25 % failure rate, you’re single but not so stupid as to trust a condom in
the name of safe sex.
Nine, It is stupid to hang around a guy simply because he was
your first love, or because he disvirgined you, or because you are pregnant for
him. Never tie yourself to a childhood love when obviously it has no future, or
it was a mistake or there is an endless wait for commitment. And even if you
are pregnant, don’t buy into the lie that you have no choice. Wisdom says, have
the baby, perhaps give the baby up for adoption, learn from your mistakes and
take charge of your future.
Ten, my friend, have you ever tried to get to know a lady
beyond her beauty and the curves of her body? Do you realize that a woman may
lose her famous figure-eight after some babies descend from her womb? Do you
truly love her or are you simply infatuated? I think you are more intelligent
than that. Being passionately single shouldn’t make you stupefied at temporary
beauty for you are single and not stupid.
Can somebody say, “I Hear”.... if u share my opinion!
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Please remain happy and spread happiness around. Xoxo
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