Whenever I hear a man in a relationship say he has a female as his best friend, I often ask one question, why? I really don’t understand why you would have a girlfriend who is not qualified to be your best friend. Why must a girl other than your girlfriend be your best friend when you can be best friends with a fellow man like you?
It’s unfortunate that some men allow this to cause friction
in their relationships. My good friend is currently in this situation. Such a
sweet girl with a golden heart but unfortunately in an unhealthy relationship. I
call it unhealthy because she is deeply hurt by this situation. The partner
claims the other woman is just a friend. They are ‘just’ friends but he’s
forever on the phone with the girl, chatting the whole day on Whatsapp, BBM and
making long phone calls.